Volunteer Fireman putting up the town Christmas lights in the 90's. |
Friday, November 27, 2020
It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas
Friday, November 20, 2020
Mom's BFF
Marge Trinkle and Eileen Gamlin in the late 30's |
Following graduation, Marge
went to business school in Missouri and mom went to business school in
Springfield. After a short time, they both returned to the Raymond
area. Marge married Raymond “Jiggs” Hough in 1946, and their first daughter, Kathy,
was born around the time my mom and dad were married in 1947. My brother, Joe,
was born the following year in 1948, and then mom and Marge were expecting at
the same time on two occasions: Maury Hough and Bob Bandy were born less than a
month apart in 1950, and Becky Hough and Nancy Bandy were born about six weeks apart
in 1953. As young mothers raising several kids, mom and Marge felt lucky to have each other for support, especially when it came to dealing with Moe and Bob's shenanigans. In the 70’s and 80’s,
mom and Marge worked together at the First National Bank of Raymond.
Marge and Jiggs Hough in the mid-90's |
I have always thought of Marge as one of the nicest people I have ever known, and one of the most resilient women I have ever known. A breast cancer survivor, Marge’s kind spirit and faith remained strong, even when she lost Jiggs after nearly 60 years of marriage, and after losing two of her adult children, Maury and Becky.
Marge lived in her home until a few years ago when she moved to Tremont Ridge Assisted Living in Hillsboro. A couple of my siblings and I visited her there last fall. At age 96, she was still happy and on the go, and I'm so glad we got to have that last visit with her.
Marge once gave Mom a bracelet that is made of several links. If you look closely, you can still see the words that are inscribed on each link: “With-Love-To-Eileen-From-Your-Friend-Marjorie-1943.” Mom kept it for the rest of her life.
Rest in peace, Marge. You will be missed.
Thursday, November 12, 2020
Still Standing
Raymond's World War I veteran's monument once stood in the middle of Main Street on the east side of the railroad tracks. It was eventually moved to the high school, and later to Veteran's Memorial Park on the Gun Club grounds. According to Raymond's 125 Years of Memories book, the cannon in the top photo was given to a scrap drive during World War II to be melted down.
Thursday, November 5, 2020
Thank you for your service
With Veteran's Day approaching, I thought it would be a good time to run another encore post from August, 2014 about one of Raymond's veterans, Elmer Carriker. Elmer was the son of Joseph Elmer and Cleo Carriker of Raymond. The couple had ten children. Four of their sons served at the same time in World War II: Charles, Philip, William, and Elmer, Jr. Their younger brother, Kenneth, served in the Army in the Korean War. The last surving Carriker sibling, William "Bill" Carriker, recently died on October 30th at the age of 97.
On August 14, 1945, Japan surrendered unconditionally to the Allies, effectively ending World War II. Since then, both August 14 and August 15 have been known as “Victory Over Japan Day,” or simply “V-J Day.”
The following information appears in Raymond's 125th Anniversary book:
Raymond celebrated V-J Day on Tuesday, August 14, 1945 shortly after 6:00 p.m.
when the official announcement came over the radio that Japan had accepted the
Allied terms of unconditional surrender. The fire siren sounded continuously,
and the church bells rang out the good news. Automobile horns sounded without
ceasing and gunpowder and firecrackers added to the noise. Many Raymond people
went to church Tuesday evening and Wednesday morning. Stores in Raymond were
closed all day Wednesday.
Elmer Carriker of Raymond was witness to the signing of the Japanese surrender in World War II. Carriker was in the U.S. Navy stationed aboard the USS Wren which saw engagements in Okinawa and the Aleutian Islands with the Third Fleet. on the morning of August 16, 1945 the Wren was among a combined fleet of over 100 ships near the Japan shores. Carriker watched through binoculars as the Japanese taxi boat drew near the USS Missouri and saw the Japanese officers sign the surrender documents in front of General MacArthur and Admiral Halsey.
Special thanks to Janna Carriker Lawrence and Keith Carriker for providing Elmer's photo.
Thursday, October 29, 2020
Girls Just Wanna Have Fun
Following is a throwback that was published in The Raymond News on August 27, 1964. By the way, this Saturday, 10/31 marks the 160th birthday of Juliette Gordon Low, founder of the Girl Scouts.
Reading this made me think about all the fun my friends and I had in the 70's, when we were in Junior Girl Scout Troop #208 led by Diane Pitchford and Roberta Mitts. Sometime, I'll have to write down my memories from those days. In the meantime, here are the words to my all-time favorite Girl Scout campfire song. How many of you remember it?
Days of Girl Scouting
will fly away, die away
Days of true friendship
will be memories
We have loved, we have
learned
Let us now teach in turn
That the flame we have
kindled forever shall burn.
All of our footsteps will fade away, fade away
Others will follow the
paths we have trod
With their hearts full
of love
And their songs full of
joy
To keep the flame
burning for those yet to come.
Thursday, October 22, 2020
Trick or Treat
Please enjoy tonight's encore presentation of the Throwback Thursday post, Trick or Treat, originally published in October, 2014.
Earlier this week, I was telling my son tales about the real Halloween, the one that took place back home in Raymond. It was the good old days, back before there were Halloween superstores and easy access to all kinds of fancy costumes and decor. We had basically the same stuff to work with year after year, and it was stored in a big cardboard box way up on the top shelf of the back porch closet. About a week before Halloween, Dad would climb up a small ladder and get the box full of treasures down for us. It was full of old masks and various props, and with some creativity, imagination, and plenty of mom’s Avon red lipstick, it was possible to reinvent yourself year after year.
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Terry and Brenda Todt and family at the Raymond Halloween parade in 1994. |
The days leading up to Halloween were exciting. You selected the perfect
pumpkin(s), carved them, and stocked up on votive candles. Various clubs and
organizations like 4-H, Scouts, and church groups hosted hay rides that cruised
through the countryside after dark before making a couple of passes through
town, leaving behind a hay trail on the streets. My mom worried that hayrides
were too dangerous, but I thought they were great fun. What could possibly go
wrong with fifty unruly kids wrestling around in the back of a hay wagon that
was being pulled by a tractor down a dark country road? Mom always lectured my
sisters about how they should never wear jewelry on a hayride, especially hoop
earrings, because so and so nearly had
her ear ripped off when her hoop earring got caught on a wagon. I think that was a Raymond urban legend, and to this day I’m still not convinced that ever really happened to anyone.
My friends and I spent Sundays in October raking leaves into huge piles and jumping in
them, coming up with ideas for the haunted house we were always going to build
but never did, and trick-or-treating for UNICEF. As Halloween grew closer, the
soaping started. It was mainly on the storefront windows on Main Street, and
sometimes on certain people’s car windows or houses. It was common knowledge
that Ivory or Dove brands worked the best, and if you really wanted to “get”
someone, you used paraffin. I remember walking up and down the aisles of
Mizera’s Market, my pockets heavy with the change that a half-dozen kids had
pooled together, trying to get up the nerve to go up to the cash register to purchase the soap and toilet
paper. In the end it was all worth it to see the TP hanging from the bare tree limbs on a dark,
windy Halloween night.
Trick-or-Treating in Raymond went on for two or three nights because you had to have time to go to almost every house in town, where you would be invited inside and subjected to a barrage of questions while the family who lived their tried to guess who you were. Once they were done guessing and the masks came off, they gave you FULL-SIZE candy bars, not the little miniatures that are handed out now. And although there were the stories from big cities where glass or razor blades were found in candy, in Raymond, it was not necessary for your parents to go through all your stuff to make sure it was safe. Of course it was safe.
Each year, Mrs. Blodgett, the widow who lived next door to the Ondrey’s, would dress up as
a witch and hand out candy to everyone. We were scared to death of her year round, but
particularly on Halloween, and I remember huddling together in her front yard, trying to work up the courage
to ring her doorbell. (Of course, we eventually learned that our perceptions of
her were entirely wrong, and she was one of the nicest people in town.)
Many years later, Raymond started hosting an annual Halloween parade. While I
didn’t have any luck finding a picture from Halloween from way back in my day,
I did find this cute picture of Terry and Brenda Todt and their family, taken
in 1994 at Raymond's Halloween parade.