Friday, November 27, 2020

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas

 The following article appeared in The Raymond News on 1/30/75:




Volunteer Fireman putting up the town Christmas lights in the 90's.
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I'm not sure if this is still the case or not, but when I was a kid, the firemen put up the town's Christmas lights on the Sunday before Thanksgiving and they were turned on for the first time on Thanksgiving night. I couldn't wait to go uptown that night to see the lights that were strung across Main Street and the Santa and reindeer display that was set-up near the old water tower along Rt. 48. 

And that was just the beginning of the excitement. Seeing the Christmas lights on Main Street was a reminder that mom and dad would soon be decorating the store and  it was almost time to make our annual trip to Earl and Doris Sorrells' farm to find the perfect tree. The Sears Christmas Wish Book would be arriving in the mail and Santa's annual Saturday afternoon visit to Raymond was right around the corner. The upcoming weeks would be busy with practices for school and church Christmas programs, and with shopping that included picking out the perfect Secret Santa gift for a classmate (with a $2.50 spending limit!). 

Even after all these years, when I'm in Raymond for the holidays I still love turning down Main Street and seeing the Christmas lights.



Friday, November 20, 2020

Mom's BFF

Marge Trinkle and Eileen Gamlin in the late 30's
     I was sad to hear the news that Marge Hough, one of my mom’s life-long friends, passed away this week. 

My mom, Eileen Gamlin Bandy, met Marge (Margie Trinkle) when they started high school together in Raymond in the late 1930’s. The Gamlins lived in a farmhouse on one of the twin hills east of town, and up until that time, mom had attended a nearby country school. Back in those days, there was no “hard road” and travelling back and forth to Raymond for high school was difficult, so mom frequently stayed all night with Marge in town. At one point during high school, she ended up living with the Trinkles for almost an entire year, while the road (now known as the Nokomis Blacktop) was being constructed.

Following graduation, Marge went to business school in Missouri and mom went to business school in Springfield. After a short time, they both returned to the Raymond area. Marge married Raymond “Jiggs” Hough in 1946, and their first daughter, Kathy, was born around the time my mom and dad were married in 1947. My brother, Joe, was born the following year in 1948, and then mom and Marge were expecting at the same time on two occasions: Maury Hough and Bob Bandy were born less than a month apart in 1950, and Becky Hough and Nancy Bandy were born about six weeks apart in 1953. As young mothers raising several kids, mom and Marge felt lucky to have each other for support, especially when it came to dealing with Moe and Bob's shenanigans. In the 70’s and 80’s, mom and Marge worked together at the First National Bank of Raymond.

Marge and Jiggs Hough
in the mid-90's

I have always thought of Marge as one of the nicest people I have ever known, and one of the most resilient women I have ever known. A breast cancer survivor, Marge’s kind spirit and faith remained strong, even when she lost Jiggs after nearly 60 years of marriage, and after losing two of her adult children, Maury and Becky. 

Marge lived in her home until a few years ago when she moved to Tremont Ridge Assisted Living in Hillsboro. A couple of my siblings and I visited her there last fall. At age 96, she was still happy and on the go, and I'm so glad we got to have that last visit with her.   

Marge once gave Mom a bracelet that is made of several links. If you look closely, you can still see the words that are inscribed on each link: “With-Love-To-Eileen-From-Your-Friend-Marjorie-1943.” Mom kept it for the rest of her life. 

Rest in peace, Marge. You will be missed. 


Thursday, November 12, 2020

Still Standing

Raymond's World War I veteran's monument once stood in the middle of Main Street on the east side of the railroad tracks. It was eventually moved to the high school, and later to Veteran's Memorial Park on the Gun Club grounds. According to Raymond's 125 Years of Memories book, the cannon in the top photo was given to a scrap drive during World War II to be melted down. 





Veteran's Memorial Park - Raymond, Illinois 

Thursday, November 5, 2020

Thank you for your service

With Veteran's Day approaching, I thought it would be a good time to run another encore post from August, 2014 about one of Raymond's veterans, Elmer Carriker. Elmer was the son of Joseph Elmer and Cleo Carriker of Raymond. The couple had ten children. Four of their sons served at the same time in World War II: Charles, Philip, William, and Elmer, Jr. Their younger brother, Kenneth, served in the Army in the Korean War. The last surving Carriker sibling, William "Bill" Carriker, recently died on October 30th at the age of 97. 

 
On August 14, 1945, Japan surrendered unconditionally to the Allies, effectively ending World War II. Since then, both August 14 and August 15 have been known as “Victory Over Japan Day,” or simply “V-J Day.”

The following information appears in Raymond's 125th Anniversary book: 

Raymond celebrated V-J Day on Tuesday, August 14, 1945 shortly after 6:00 p.m. when the official announcement came over the radio that Japan had accepted the Allied terms of unconditional surrender. The fire siren sounded continuously, and the church bells rang out the good news. Automobile horns sounded without ceasing and gunpowder and firecrackers added to the noise. Many Raymond people went to church Tuesday evening and Wednesday morning. Stores in Raymond were closed all day Wednesday.

Elmer Carriker of Raymond was witness to the signing of the Japanese surrender in World War II. Carriker was in the U.S. Navy stationed aboard the USS Wren which saw engagements in Okinawa and the Aleutian Islands with the Third Fleet. on the morning of August 16, 1945 the Wren was among a combined fleet of over 100 ships near the Japan shores. Carriker watched through binoculars as the Japanese taxi boat drew near the USS Missouri and saw the Japanese officers sign the surrender documents in front of General MacArthur and Admiral Halsey.

Special thanks to Janna Carriker Lawrence and Keith Carriker for providing Elmer's photo.  

 

Thursday, October 29, 2020

Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

Following is a throwback that was published in The Raymond News on August 27, 1964.  By the way, this Saturday, 10/31 marks the 160th birthday of Juliette Gordon Low, founder of the Girl Scouts.  

 


Reading this made me think about all the fun my friends and I had in the 70's, when we were in Junior Girl Scout Troop #208 led by Diane Pitchford and Roberta Mitts. Sometime, I'll have to write down my memories from those days. In the meantime, here are the words to my all-time favorite Girl Scout campfire song. How many of you remember it? 


Days of Girl Scouting will fly away, die away
Days of true friendship will be memories
We have loved, we have learned
Let us now teach in turn
That the flame we have kindled forever shall burn.


All of our footsteps will fade away, fade away
Others will follow the paths we have trod
With their hearts full of love
And their songs full of joy
To keep the flame burning for those yet to come.


Thursday, October 22, 2020

Trick or Treat

Please enjoy tonight's encore presentation of  the Throwback Thursday post, Trick or Treat, originally published in October, 2014.  

Earlier this week, I was telling my son tales about the real Halloween, the one that took place back home in Raymond. It was the good old days, back before there were Halloween superstores and easy access to all kinds of fancy costumes and decor. We had basically the same stuff to work with year after year, and it was stored in a big cardboard box way up on the top shelf of the back porch closet. About a week before Halloween, Dad would climb up a small ladder and get the box full of treasures down for us. It was full of old masks and various props, and with some creativity, imagination, and plenty of mom’s Avon red lipstick, it was possible to reinvent yourself year after year.

Terry and Brenda Todt and family at the
Raymond Halloween parade in 1994.

 The masks were old and uncomfortable. They were manufactured out of hard plastic and you could barely breathe, let alone see where you were going. Your mask was secured to your head with a tight, thin elastic band that got tangled in your hair and usually ended up snapping you in the face a few times over the course of the evening. The “costumes” were often regular clothes that were too big or worn out, but with ingenuity it was possible to fashion a decent costume. In fact, that was half of the fun of the whole thing. 

The days leading up to Halloween were exciting. You selected the perfect pumpkin(s), carved them, and stocked up on votive candles. Various clubs and organizations like 4-H, Scouts, and church groups hosted hay rides that cruised through the countryside after dark before making a couple of passes through town, leaving behind a hay trail on the streets. My mom worried that hayrides were too dangerous, but I thought they were great fun. What could possibly go wrong with fifty unruly kids wrestling around in the back of a hay wagon that was being pulled by a tractor down a dark country road? Mom always lectured my sisters about how they should never wear jewelry on a hayride, especially hoop earrings, because so and so nearly had her ear ripped off when her hoop earring got caught on a wagon. I think that was a Raymond urban legend, and to this day I’m still not convinced that ever really happened to anyone. 

My friends and I spent Sundays in October raking leaves into huge piles and jumping in them, coming up with ideas for the haunted house we were always going to build but never did, and trick-or-treating for UNICEF. As Halloween grew closer, the soaping started. It was mainly on the storefront windows on Main Street, and sometimes on certain people’s car windows or houses. It was common knowledge that Ivory or Dove brands worked the best, and if you really wanted to “get” someone, you used paraffin. I remember walking up and down the aisles of Mizera’s Market, my pockets heavy with the change that a half-dozen kids had pooled together, trying to get up the nerve to go up to the cash register to purchase the soap and toilet paper. In the end it was all worth it to see the TP hanging from the bare tree limbs on a dark, windy Halloween night. 

Trick-or-Treating in Raymond went on for two or three nights because you had to have time to go to almost every house in town, where you would be invited inside and subjected to a barrage of questions while the family who lived their tried to guess who you were. Once they were done guessing and the masks came off, they gave you FULL-SIZE candy bars, not the little miniatures that are handed out now. And although there were the stories from big cities where glass or razor blades were found in candy, in Raymond, it was not necessary for your parents to go through all your stuff to make sure it was safe. Of course it was safe. 

Each year, Mrs. Blodgett, the widow who lived next door to the Ondrey’s, would dress up as a witch and hand out candy to everyone. We were scared to death of her year round, but particularly on Halloween, and I remember huddling together in her front yard, trying to work up the courage to ring her doorbell. (Of course, we eventually learned that our perceptions of her were entirely wrong, and she was one of the nicest people in town.)

Many years later, Raymond started hosting an annual Halloween parade. While I didn’t have any luck finding a picture from Halloween from way back in my day, I did find this cute picture of Terry and Brenda Todt and their family, taken in 1994 at Raymond's Halloween parade.

Thursday, October 15, 2020

Hey, batter batter

Kiwanis Little League players at the Raymond Park in the mid-70's.
Pictured from left are Roger Alsbury, Larry Lanter, and Ed Arnett. 


The following article appeared in The Raymond News on September 11, 1975:



Larry Lanter 


Picture of Carl Walch compliments of Toots Walch.  On the back of the photo someone had written, "
Don't know if he could hit the ball, but should be able to catch it with that big glove."



Thanks to Pam and Larry Lanter and to Janet Walch for providing this week's photos!